Category Archives: Everything and anything

How Loving Yourself Tells Others How To Love You

Originally posted on Thought Catalog:
You told yourself it wasn’t for him – the time spent with the curling iron, the strategically placed dabs of perfume, the sheer wash of berry gloss on your lips, that black blouse Grandma always…

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Comparison.

Do you know how I feel when someone compares me to someone “better” than me? Hatred. Yeah, yeah, I know. “Hate is a strong word.” I know. I agree, but I can’t help but feel that way when I’m being … Continue reading

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Big chop – Finger coil style

Today around 5:30 I big chopped and I actually really like it. The stylist who cut my hair for me looked at my face after she cut it and she was said, “You’re that type of girl..you could rock both … Continue reading

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Untold Beauty : A response to “DARK GIRLS”

Originally posted on Kindred Kinks:
        This past Sunday the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) aired a documentary, by Bill Duke, titled “Dark Girls”. Being a woman of deep toned skin I was both concerned and optimistic about this documentary. Concerned…

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Oh happy day

I am just feeling beyond happy!  Why am I happy you ask? After 8 months of no relaxer I am finally ready to cut my hair off or big chop as everyone says.  This makes me really really excited because … Continue reading

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Changing the legal system for Trayvon Martin.

Only July 13th George Zimmerman was found “Not Guilty” in the case of the murder of 17 year old Trayvon Martin. To be honest, I was in complete shock. So shocked that I waited until I actually felt totally comfortable … Continue reading

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Fourth, July

Sometimes I am really unpatriotic, like it’s bad. Because at times when I think about America I think about all the bad things, the injustices, the system, everything negative.  My mother knows why I can’t feel so patriotic at times … Continue reading

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